[Jedao's voice is quiet, calm, a little raspy. Thoughtful, rather than accusatory.]

The difference is whether you think about it first. You know he's distraught about it now, because it's all in front of you. But in another three months, when he's tucked it all away and been cool as a cat for a while...?

But now I've made you think about it, so you definitely won't.

Maybe that's an overreaction. I'm sorry if it is. You should definitely breathe, and punish me about it instead of yourself.